PLEASE HELP!! MAX POINTS!!?
I've been planning this date with a girl I like a good bit for about a week. We already decided on a place but on Wednesday when I asked (in person) she was at first excited to go but then remembered she said she wasnt sure if she could until later bc she might go over a friends house. I asked how long they would be hanging and she said she didn't know.
Friday night I texted her and we flirted for a little and then I said. "Its a shame youre going to be with your friend tomorrow because I've been craving (here) all week."
She responded "Maybe we can make it happen!"
and having already been going to sleep I said "we'll talk about it tomorrow bc i am going to go to bed"
I texted her today at 2 and said "hey, id still like to go today, how does 8 sound" and she took 2 hours to respond and said "i want to too but I can't!!!" She then explained she "forgot she had to hang with a friend" I was at first nice about, saying "well she must be really awesome" but then my next text I made my decision and said "well i gotta go, see ya later" (this was at 5pm)...she never responded.
Im wondering if I jumped the gun here. I've been in this situation with a lot of girls and when this happens it usually means they're leading me on. Especially if she chooses to hang with a friend over going on a date that I asked about on Wednesday. Anyways, I like her but still have the power to walk away. I wont see her again until Monday and I dont know what Im going to say. Did I do the right thing? And if I didn't, how do I fix it?
Answers:
I don't think you jumped the gun. Sure, you possibly could have been a little less assertive. Maybe instead of texting her about still wanting to go out that day at 8, you should have just said something like "hey,I was just wondering if you still had plans today, if not we should hang out together" something like that. Girls dot really like being told what to do, try to be a little more subtle next time.
Overall I think you've pretty much done the right things. Just keep in contact with this girl and im sure you"ll be on a date with her in no time. Just try not to suffocate her, don't text her everyday, and when you see her in school or whereever just smile and be nice to her. Im sure everything will work out.
Good Luck!
From my point of veiw, you did the right thing. Talk to her about it, you havn't jumped the gun I've done the same to a boy before not realising how it made him feel (as in forgetting plans with friends) just talk to her about it! Don't lock your feeling inside! Good luck!
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